Last night I was one of the Alumni on the NSLI-Y Country Specific Call for the participants going to Turkey this summer. It was a lot of fun and I enjoyed sharing some of my experiences with high school students who are in the same position I was in 3 years ago. It seems like it was so much longer, but I was first immersed in the Turkish language and culture just 3 years ago at about this same time.
While on the call I realized a few things. I was giving advice to the students, and that advice I really should follow myself. Here are a few tips that I told the students, which I am going to try and live by this summer:
Don't freak out, everything will be fine. It will all work out in the end. I am the type of person who is extremely organized and likes to know all
of the details before I do something. This is not how it goes when
participating in programs like NSLI-Y or CLS because there are numerous
unknowns before one arrives in their host country. I will have to wait until I arrive in Izmir to know about weekend plans and when/if I can travel to visit friends.
You get out of it what you put into it. I really want to be a part of my host family. Close relationships with people take work, and I want to spend as much time with my new host family and friends as possible. The more time and effort I put into studying Turkish the more I am going to learn. And my goal from this summer from the beginning has been to get my Turkish down pat and really feel comfortable with the grammar and vocabulary, and that is something I can control with how much effort I put into it.
Spend as little time on the computer and social networks. This is really going to be challenging for me, but for the most part I am going to try and unplug for the summer. I will sign a contract saying I am only going to speak Turkish (unless speaking with my American family or in an emergency pretty much), so I want to do that through the internet as well. I have been toiling over the decision whether or not to take my laptop and after last night I came to the decision that I am not going to take it. I will not be completely disconnected from the world and I will survive without it.
Enjoy and take advantage of everything! I want to take advantage of all of the opportunities I am given because
this really is a once in a lifetime opportunity. I know I have received a
scholarship from the US Department of State several times, but each
time I am in a new city surrounded by new people and am able to do
exciting new activities. I cannot wait to be in Izmir to see everything it has to offer! :)